during the final days leading up to the wedding, i started to notice that so much of my "normal", non-wedding planning life was on hold... that got me thinking about what i wanted to do when i got back to life as usual.
well at that point i thought, piece of cake, life will resume once we get outta town and head to tahiti for our honeymoon... haha looking back now i laugh at how naive i was to think that relaxing in tahiti was "normal life" - give me a break!
here's us at the pinnacle of "non-normal life" at our rehearsal dinner
and here we are once again - recovering from the wedding weekend
on our honeymoon in Bora Bora
we look pretty stress free right?
yes but i realize now that the wedding and then traveling to paradise to "relax" was really more the calm before the storm.
Life has become so crazy for the two of us - J is just preparing for 3rd year law school finals, and here i am with my crazy jobs and trying to run my jewelry & accessory business!
we recovered, then returned, and life never went back to life as we knew it ...
so in an attempt to retain some type of normalcy i started a list that grows each week. since i'm a list maker, it helps to know that i'm accomplishing things, no matter how small or trivial they seem - it's just nice to know we're getting things done!
I give you my after wedding to-do list:
- go to Disneyland -
- go on a date with J - check (although this is something i'd love to do weekly)
- spend quality time with friends & family - check
- go to the swap meet -
- look into a business credit card (maybe not such a great idea given the current financial climate) -
- get our apartment organized - quasi check... with the exception of our study
- close out our wedding registries - check (except Crate & Barrel)
- get holiday items posted in my etsy shop - check
- get caught up on my business blog - check
- get wedding thank you's written and sent - 1/2 check (still have 1/2 the list to go)
- get my credit card paid off - almost check =)
- spend time playing catch up with close friends - 1/2 check
- christmas shopping - almost check!
and the list goes on... did anyone else feel like much of their normal life had disappeared and long to rein it in once the big day had passed!
