wedding style, the current joy of my life... follow along with me as i plan our aug 08 wedding

My Martha Wedding Inspiration...

Feb 26, 2008

a long while back, i think before i was engaged (yes, i am one of those brides, shhh...) i was flipping through a Martha Stewart Wedding mag (yes i did buy one prior to being engaged) and i came across this inspiration for one of the main focal points  of our wedding reception.


once i became engaged i stumbled across this reception look again, i had been searching for paper lanterns, i had seen many pics of receptions incorporating them.  although at that point i wasn't quite sure what look i was trying to achieve, other than a nautical feel....
then the above Martha inspiration came my way, instantly i knew i wanted white, blue, and a few purple lanterns in various sizes.  rather than Martha's approach of hanging the lanterns over a table, i wanted to use them to focus the attention on our dance floor.  after realizing my vision, my mom and i made the trek up to china town in los angeles on a mission to get great prices on paper lanterns, sure enough 16 lanterns and $60 later, my lanterns and i were driving home. 
 i was quite pleased with myself!

also, a few days ago my sis-in-law informed me that paper lanterns were on sale at 
Cost Plus World Market, so i found these fabulous brocade style lanterns! i think they are all really neat, but the blue are by far the winners in my book, since they work so
well with my color scheme!
so the problem is now, what would i do with these.... hmmm...
ha! i know, i could use them outside at the cocktail hour for decor! genius... 
this way the lanterns will tie the cocktail hour decor and reception decor together without being the same exact style! 

the next plan of attack was to use the centerpiece idea for some of my reception tables.
after that same LA trip, i was about ready to give up on the idea of 5 various sized hurricanes on each of these tables, wow that would cost more than just sticking with flowers!
well one night at Big Lots, i spotted a drinking glass set that was uber cheap, and had 3 various sized cylindrical glasses, which a candle would fit very nicely in... hmm.. since all the hurricanes will be wrapped in a white paper, it really didn't matter what they looked like! ha, i saved money again for my smaller "hurricanes."  
now the problem of the tall ones, well on a visit to good old WalMart, my brilliant sis-in-law saw the Catholic prayer candles (for lack of a better name) and thought hmm... hurricane plus candle all for $.99, can't beat that! cross off the candle situation, and it looks like the table decoration problems were solved.
crisis averted! 

More 2008 Earring Styles

Feb 21, 2008

Etoile in padapardcha & gold


Jardin in jade green, pearls, & gold


L'eau Drop in blue, teal, & gold


Rendez-vous shown in turquoise & gold


Etoile in gold crystal & gold


La Plage in white turquoise, bronze pearl, & gold


L'eau in white & gold


Champagne in bronze pearl & crystal 
with antiqued sterling silver


Petit Four in pink quartz, pearl, & sterling sliver

contact me for pricing, custom colors, or additional styles from previous seasons.

Something old, new, borrowed, blue...

Feb 20, 2008

borrowed from the Martha Stewart Wedding Etiquette Blog...


The Rite Stuff

"you know the custom: a bride should wear "something old, something new, something borrow, something blue" on her wedding day for luck.  it's an En
glish wedding tradition that began in the Victorian era- each item meant to symbolize a different element of the bride's life:
  • something old: continuity with the bride's family and her past
  • something new: optimism and hope for the bride's new life
  • something borrowed: good fortune passed on from a happily married friend or family member (you borrow from a friend who is married)
  • something blue: blue is a color associate in ancient Rome with love and fidelity
of course, this is just one or many different wedding traditions you can incorporate into your wedding.  whatever you choose, make sure it has special meaning to you, and as always put your own, personal spin on it."

i always love finding out where our wedding traditions come from, i know i plan on incorporating this tradition into my wedding, although i haven't quite figured out how i will do it exactly ... hmmm...

any suggestions, or ways you have incorporated these traditions into your own wedding?

Is your groom-to-be giving you trouble?


while flipping through one of the many wedding mags littered around my bedroom, i found this hand dandy "grooms" calendar accompanying the wedding to do lists that come in every wedding mag.  i quickly ripped it out thinking my oh-so-busy, law school studying, fiance might be in need of a wedding schedule... and as the semester progressed, and the clock started ticking, and it became more and more difficult to coordinate our schedules to accomplish our necessary wedding tasks.


needless to say this was driving me nuts, seeing how i'm mildly obsessive about my wedding timetable, and sticking to it!  well... it was time to search my wedding binder for that tear out that was stored someplace between it's covers. 

if you are like me, paranoid about falling behind on your wedding to do's, and would like some help from you fiance, know this ahead of time...  girls he CANNOT READ YOUR MIND, you'd think i would've known this ahead of time, but no, i've been learning this the hard way and becoming frustrated.  give him a little help this way he knows what you're expecting of him on a monthly basis... he can keep himself on track according to the general guidelines of most wedding planning to do lists.

hope this is a helpful tool to your groom-to-be!

Bridesmaids Gift Ideas


like many of you engaged women out there, i've been throwing some ideas around in my noggin about what gifts to give my BMs as gifts, not only for their friendship, but also the many duties they helped with leading up to the wedding. i obviously wanna do a gift bag they can use long after the wedding day. but i would like to fill that bag with some useful goodies for that day, and for many days to follow!


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DIY bridesmaid gift idea

the sandals- 
since our wedding will take place near the beach, i thought it would be nice to have a comfy, yet stylish pair of flip flops for the BMs to change into for the reception.   here's an example of what i plan on doing (note: i have experience be-dazzling cell phones, so make sure to test out before starting this DIY)!
what you need:
swarovski flatback crystal in size ss16 or ss20
pair of sandals - Old Navy $5 or 2 for $5 flip flops
crazy glue adhesive - i like future glue from any craft store
tweezers


how to sandals: 
  • you will need to pick up the various sizes of sandals for your girls (find Havaians, Old Navy, Jcrew sandals)
  • purchase flat back Swarovski crystals (can find many selections on eBay, or a jewelry wholesaler)
  • crazy glue (do not use a glue gun, the glue is not strong enough to bond the rubber and crystal together)
  • depending on size of the thongs, you will need to line up crystals, typically in rows of 3, start working from toe area of the thong and work your way out ( <--|-->) back towards heal of sandal.
  • when applying glue, put it on the back of each crystal, then use tweezers to apply and position crystal on thong.

BMs totes: 

i found the following bags during my most recent adventure at Old Navy believe it or not for $7 buckos! great deal... they come in the following colors, get the while they last on clearance

It's Raining Bridesmaid Dresses

Feb 19, 2008

so i was inspired by the most recent hot colors pick by the Knot and looked for great BM dresses (that are fully functional, don't look like typical bm dresses, nor are  they ridiculously overpriced).


straight from NY fashion week :

regal purple, aubergine, and lilac - the hot new colors coming our way in the fashion world it reflected in the wedding world).























- all four of these dresses 
   can be found at Nordstrom






hot color combo 
for summer 08: 
lilac & celery












lime & blue are also a knot.com color combo for summer 08!



























stay tuned for more practical, and oh so pretty non traditional BM dress options!
 





dress can be found at Bloomingdales

Coming Attractions...

DIY gifts for bridesmaids and totes for those gifts!